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Ways of patience to raise your children

 The upbringing and upbringing of children requires a lot of patience and endurance, whether when caring for them or teaching them and teaching them, so parents must be patient as much as possible, but every person who is under pressure is exposed to his impatience and endurance, and impatience is considered a bad thing with harmful consequences and affecting health The psychological to the child, and parents may be blamed for their children's bad behavior. Because the method of raising calm and polite children does not work if the parents do not possess the patience and the appropriate mentality, and we will explain some methods that give you patience to raise your child.


Ways of patience to raise your children:

Listen carefully:

Whereas, when a problem or disagreement occurs with the child, parents should try to understand his feelings and the reason for his bad behavior instead of criticizing him and giving him disciplinary lectures that only increase his desire to do his bad behavior, and they should talk to him and ask him calmly about his feelings and listen to him carefully, even If the child does not answer directly, he will know that his parents are ready to listen to his feelings and thoughts at any time.


Understanding the child:

Where it helps to listen to the child in understanding what is going on in his life, and often the child's negative reactions to some things that happen in his life are attributed to his parents. Because they do not listen to them, which is usually matched by a loss of parental patience and then screaming, and to avoid this, parents should try to understand why the child is feeling, and try to change or solve it in some way.

 

Not taking matters personally:

Where parents must be aware of the idea that the child's negative behavior is a result of situations taking place in his life, and not because of their actions, as they do not have to take matters personally, even if the child tries to provoke them, and remember this idea, which may prevent the parents from losing their patience, and reduce Of yelling at their children.



Defining the problem:

 So that parents can maintain control of matters, and they must determine the problem or situation that provokes their anger, in order to make the necessary changes to solve it, for example if the preparations that the mother makes in the early morning for the child to go to school is a reason for losing her patience, she can divide the task into small tasks And distributing it at different times to complete it, and to relieve itself in the morning, such as preparing children's clothes at night, and waking everyone up earlier.


 Ignore:

Where ignoring is considered one of the best methods that parents can follow with their children, as not all situations that the child performs deserve standing on them, rather some situations must be left without comment or attention, specifically the situations that come out spontaneously from the child, as the reaction Parents attract the child's attention to something they may not be aware of, then ignoring them in these situations is best.


Avoid shouting:

Where screaming is one of the things that parents resort to in response to a child's wrong behavior, but this behavior is considered exhausting and tiring for parents before the children. Because screaming does not convey any message to the child, rather it may make the situation worse, and the child will explain that the only cause of the screaming is aggression, and his reaction will become more difficult and stronger.


The importance of patience in raising children:

Parents' patience in parenting strengthens the bonds of the relationship with their children, and patience is also reflected in the behavior of children, and they learn many things from their parents thanks to their patience with them, and the following are the positive results that patience leads to in raising children:


 A good example:

Where children's behavior is affected by the behavior of adults around them; Because they tend to imitate their parents, so when parents patiently deal with their children, they are thus setting a role model for their children, and on the other hand, acting nervous with situations causes children to follow the same method to express their frustration.

Promote respect:

Parents need in some important situations to make strict decisions with their children. If anger is about everything that is the character of the parents, then they will lose power over their children in critical situations, and if the children are used to their parents ’anger in most matters of their lives, they will not take some things seriously. Grandpa.


 Emotional maturity:

Where parents' patience teaches their children the ability to contain themselves, flexibility in dealing with situations, and gives them the ability to control themselves, and this helps children reach the stage of emotional maturity.



 Boost self-esteem:

Where patience in dealing with children and their praise helps them understand the pros and cons of a certain thing, and when they do the right thing, they get praise from their parents, which enhances their understanding of the concepts of right and wrong, and increases their self-esteem. To absolutely positive results.


Personal comfort:

Raising children is considered stressful and stressful, and if parents deal with nervousness and annoyance with their children, they cause themselves exhaustion on a daily basis, while dealing with them with patience reduces stress and leads to comfort.


 Raising a kind and stable person:

Children who grow up in a patient family and do not deal with situations by shouting grow up to be kind and emotionally stable people.

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